Although every person likes different things I think that every guy who is interested in sex with women should own this book. And then study it. Your lovers will thank you. And maybe some of the women who read this might want to take a peek at it as well. But I can't confirm how her advice works for guys. Or rather on guys.

Jeff didn't always like black guys. He was prejudiced—he admits it. As one of the few white kids at his school in the southeast of Washington, D.C., he fought a lot with black kids and was occasionally beaten up. When he later ran a string of gas stations, he was robbed: A black guy held a gun to his head and pulled the trigger—but the gun didn't go off.

"Honestly, that experience helped me a lot," he says. "I used to be very conservative. I didn't spend much money. Now I enjoy life. I'm much more open. Especially sexually."
It's a measure of how far he's come that Jeff (not his real name), now 40, is telling me this while we're watching a black guy have sex with his wife, Amber (not her real name), 37, at an interracial orgy. In Jeff's house. On his bed. The man screwing Jeff's wife is Branford (not his real name), a 30-year-old massage therapist who's not holding back—this isn't lovemaking, this is a proper pounding. Forget Amber—that's just how Jeff likes it.

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So what do you think ?

Well I for one think the whole thing is really fucking gross. Why do I think its gross ? Well I just see that these people all see each other as objects. I mean even if I were into swinging I'd only want to have sex with people that would actually socialize with me in real life. I hope that made sense. Well anyway let me know what you think.

PS click on the picture to see a larger version, its really quite funny.

So I thought I'd share something about myself. I find it impossible to have a threesome or cheat. The reason isn't the most obvious one though. It's not that I'm not attracted to women other than my girlfriend. Sadly, I'm attracted to a bunch of different women. At least physically. I think you all know how I feel about chubby chicks with hourglass figures and pretty faces.

Well I guess the main reason is that I find it hard to not bond emotionally with people I bond with physically. I think this is one of my most stereotypically "female" qualities. Although I have to say that a lot of girls can have sex with you and feel nothing for you. Hell even if I spent an hour or so just kissing I'd feel attached. And to be attached to more than one person emotionally would be impossible for me.
I guess one of the main reasons for that is that I tend to be a loner and I find it hard to trust people. So if I'm messing with you have to feel that I can trust you. Plus I find having and sharing my own little world with someone part of the best parts of having a relationship. So having someone else in the mix sort of ruins that.

Plus I'm selfish. While I love watching girls have sex together, it would freak me out to see my girlfriend kissing someone else.

Another big reason is that I'm germ phobic, there is too much shit out there. I don't think I have to go into this one too much.

So I guess in many ways it just isn't worth the trouble. But that is me and I KNOW your mileage many vary.

Now to try and get back to sleep.

A woman's shaved legs. Well, yeah you usually only see a woman with shaved legs. But it's sexy IMO. because they look smooth and soft, like they are begging you to touch them.


Whihc is why I like other things shaved...but we won't get into that.

Things change. Because they always seem to change for the worst. I hate that. Apparently my grandmother isn't doing good. Then they want to change my hours at work. Why can't a bunch of good things happen for once ? I'm so sick of bad shit happening. Well maybe the change of hours at work will be a good thing ? I don't know it's just too much too soon ?

On another note. I need to try to be more confident in myself. It's just hard in the face of my overwhelming incompetence in certain aspects of my life.

I think I have a pretty decent grasp of human psychology, but somehow when it comes to myself and my dealing with the opposite sex I do stuff that has been stupid. I guess that's why they say love is blind.Although I have to say that I'm not as bad as some, I just find it hard to emotionally detach myself enough to come to logical conclusions.

One logical conclusion that I have come to is this; if someone isn't interested in you, there is nothing that you can do to make them interested. Especially if they were interested at one point. It has never worked for me in the past. Never. It has only made me feel worse.

Another conclusion, if some says that they are truthful don't take them at face value. Because who would tell you they're a liar ? You can only tell with time.

Last conclusion, romance is hard work that is like sifting for gold. Most of the time you just come up with muck. But, you go back again and again looking for gold.

The three girls that I have felt the most emotion for in my life have left their imprints on me. And no I'm not talking about the despair and confusion that they each left in their wake. It's things that I learned from them good and bad. And I learned positive and negative things from each of them. Of course some had more negative things to teach me, than others.

I guess this is what people mean when they say that they have baggage.

zoethe wrote this. It was almost perfect, the only thing that was missing was, Trying to sexually satisfy your partner even if you aren't in the mood. Now I'm not saying that you must have sex every single time your partner wants it. What I am saying is that sometimes you should give it a shot even if you aren't in the mood. Because it will make your partner happy and I bet you will get turned on along they way as well. Plus it's a scientific fact that touching bonds people together.

And if they have a fetish isn't that big of a turn on give it a shot. Your girl wants her feet worshipped ? Why not ? Of course it's best to get these issues out of the way before hand. But keep an open mind. Besides you are going to need to try new things to keep the spark alive. And it should be fun, not something that you feel put on about doing. Besides now you can share a new experience together, and isn't that one of the best things about a relationship ? Experiencing new things together ?

I sometimes think that I'm shallow because I only go out with beautiful women. But I can't help it. I'm only attracted to beautiful, intelligent and imaginative women. A hard combination to find. But I have to be sexually attracted so if the girl isn't beautful ( and has some meat on her bones) then we can only be friends. This bothers me, but I can only be true to myself. What do you think ? Am I a shallow bastard or what ?

I also have a whole other laundry list of requirements too. So while I may not be totally shallow, I am picky.


I can't wait to show you what I'm working on BTW.